our mistakes ...

We heal when we learn from our mistakes and in order to learn from them we need to be honest. We need to acknowledge our mistakes, face them and live in them for a moment ... a real, timeless moment. It is essential to be accountable and honest about our actions and what we have done.

After any mistake there is an aftermath that needs to be cleaned and cleared up. When others are involved in our mistakes we need to share with them how we feel about what we have done and stay with them for a moment (a real, timeless moment) to also find out how they feel about what we have done. We need to help ourselves and help them and move past the mistake if at all possible. It is possible. Be honest and couragous about this.

At times the mistake that is more difficult to move is the one that we face alone. The mistake that we know has compromised our "highest good", regardless of its impact (or lack of impact) on others. As unfair as this may seem we often feel our solitary mistakes on a deeper level than the mistakes we made that effect others. We live within ourselves daily and therefore live in our mistakes sometimes in each moment.

It is not a different process when moving a mistake that we have made against ourselves.

Create a dialog with your higher self like you are sitting in circle with yourself. Let your higher self counsel and support your learning, remembering and growing self. Stay with yourself for a real, timeless moment and find out how you feel about what you have done. Help yourself move past your mistake with honesty and courage. This is possible too.

The aftermath of a mistake is not a good time to be a wimp. The act of being a wimp can turn mistakes into catastopies and can fade moments, even real and timeless moments into a dull lifetime.

When truthful contemplation and communication is complete we then need to walk away from the mistake. That moment in time is over. You now have much better things to do AFTER the mistake is cleared up. This is an act of love ... the universal kind of love that holds the love of self, the love of others, a love for growth, honestly and reality.